My ex bf SAYS he wants me BACK but is he in LOVE with his ex wife and using me ? go NO CONTACT ?

Ill try to lay out this subject simply….
I antiquated my right divided exbf for 6 months after he outlayed 6 months being the good crony as well as courtship me.
He had been divorced the year prior to after 8 years of matrimony as well as you didnt wish to be his rebound.
he told me his ex left him 4 years ago as well as they sleepy to get behind together 4 times given of their son.
When he as well as i proposed dating it was amazing.
he was the many regretful fun good deferential man ever.
wrote poems, took me upon sleet lonesome candlelit dinners during nation inns.
never ever pressured me sexually.
finally you became the integrate as well as he introduced me to his oldest friends as well as his small darling son
the son is 9 as well as you essentially got along as well WELL
the child is super intelligent as well as meddlesome in scholarship nd so am i … so you talked as well as the small child assumingly told the ex mother how good ‘daddy’s latest crony was’
she became sceptical as well as unexpected after NOT even saying or vocalization to my beloved for the year proposed you do the million things to engage herself with him around their son.
she additionally proposed to have automobile breakdowns as well as get mislaid pushing as well as have family emergencies only when my beloved was ostensible to dump off their son as well as see me upon saturday nights.
I told him which didnt he find her function strange.
he played dumb
and i beheld the some-more time he outlayed with her he acted reduction regretful towards me
the final straw was the film date as well as i beheld him texting her upon his dungeon phone whilst you were watchful for the film to begin.

i eventually asked him for the break.
he was harm as well as right divided over the final 3 months detached we’ve talked about how most you skip any alternative as well as additionally he pronounced he wants to try again.

weve left upon dual dates over the final month.
but his actions have been creation me doubtful.
he has eventually sole his residence as well as widely separated deduction with his exwife

he is renting the residence for the year.
he had fifteen probable towns to lease in as well as only by possibility pronounced th eonly the single he could find the residence in was his ex wife’s town.
which equates to he is right divided twenty mins over divided form me (40 mins now)
he pronounced the to be nearby his son (even yet he has control 50%)

on tip of which i havent been means to see or post upon his facebook wall given the day he combined his ex mother to it 3 weeks ago.
i additionally beheld he erased MOST of my comments upon his photos as well as his son’s photos as well as additionally my lovable small comments to his final 3 months of standing updates.

now upon friday he called me as well as told me he still thinks of me as well as longed for me as well as even wants me to prepare him the single of my extraordinary 3 courses meals.

i asked what he was you do over the week end as well as he pronounced substantially the round game
well the right divided monday as well as he never called me all weekend.

should i only give up ?
im sleepy of him callling as well as behaving similar to he needs me behind as well as afterwards ignoring me for 2-4 days during the time.

im 32 as well as he is 40 btw.

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11 Responses to My ex bf SAYS he wants me BACK but is he in LOVE with his ex wife and using me ? go NO CONTACT ?

  1. Hemm says:

    do it — he might begin amatory we if we give him great sex

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  2. book reader says:

    Give up, he sounds similar to he is regulating you.

  3. asherbee says:

    Well from what we got from all of which was which he isnt great sufficient for you. Tell him to stop job we as well as pierce on. Get together each once in the whilst so which we can still see his son. But we wouldn’t get in an additional attribute with him.

    Good Luck
    -Ashleigh

  4. DON says:

    Yes , give up sounds similar to he is only personification we . So your the great prepare we contend ? we adore the great cuddle as well !!!

  5. Devin says:

    Really?
    Come on, he is personification we for a fool.

    especially if he is personification overwhelm overwhelm with his ex wife.
    You have to figure he’s banging her.

    You’re only a tantalizing 32y/o provide upon a side.

  6. Roula says:

    mmm
    i dont unequivocally know he does not seems similar to a bad man or something though he is usually behaving weard
    and about a handle of his mother ….. i dont know….. women does which a lot as well as group regularly action foolish
    my usually suggest to we is as delta goodrem says in her song
    “if we consider adore is blind which i wouldnt see a flaws in between a lines”
    dont let adore have we blind

  7. ѕᴀᴛᴀɴɪс ʟɪʟʏ says:

    Ehh.

    Exs have been familiar, generally ones which you’ve been with for which most years. He might find joy in her company. He doesn’t have to try to be regretful or anything since she knows him.

    Most women spin in to distracted psychos when they find out the ex father is dating. They try to take the young kids away. They have fake claims to their lawyers.They do all to get the courtesy off the latest girlfriend

    It’s unequivocally tough to contend whats starting upon with him.

    I antiquated the male starting by the divorce. He never went behind to his mother though he did lie upon me.

    Maybe he only doesn’t know what he wants.

    Talk to him. Tell him what you’ve noticed. Tell him we assimilate he has the story with this lady though she isn’t ostensible to be some-more critical than we are. He is in the attribute with YOU. Tell him we assimilate which he loves his kid as well as we would never come in between him as well as his kid though we need to know where we stand.

  8. Katzie says:

    1. He changed to his ex-wifes town.
    2. He’s shut off we from accessing his facebook wall. Why? He’s fearful to let we see what’s upon it from her.
    3. He erased your comments.
    4. Failing to call you.

    Move on. I’m contemptible though he’s really still land out goal for his ex-wife.

  9. Volsftw says:

    I’m the man as well as went by something identical so we could give we probable answers that would be longer than your subject :P . For right divided we will give we the little of the things i see……

    He still has feelings for you.

    His ex is possibly wanting him behind or wanting him to be single.

    You have been still really most in adore with him.

    He is confused possibly since he still has feelings for her or wants what he thinks is most appropriate for his son. If there was no kid concerned he might be most opposite about this total situation.

    You have been analyzing all (which is natural) as well as anticipating for something to be black as well as white that might take the prolonged time to happen.

    There’s the lot to this as well as we possibly need to confront him or stay divided since if it’s over, we will never be over him until we can stay away.

  10. JC CarpeDiem says:

    i dont know what happend to us, the universe been so far-reaching we kept starting behind same paths as well as circles, cmon girl, let the little alternative boys to have the possibility to know you, who know we might find the the single for you, but all the complications we have been discuss now, advice, transport as well as live.

    Carpe Diem In Latin

    Tu ne quaesieris (scire nefas) quem mihi, quem tibi fienm di dederint, Leuconoe, nec Babilonios temptaris numeros. Ut melius quicquid erit pati!
    Seu pluris hiemes seu tribuit Iuppiter ultimam, quae nunc oppositis debilitat pumicibus mare Tyrrenum, sapias, vina liques et spatio brevi spem longam reseces. Dum loquimur, fugerit invida aetas: carpe diem, quam smallest credula postero.

    Spanish Translated

    No busques el last que the ti o the mí nos tienen reservado los dioses (que por otra parte es sacrilegio saberlo), oh Leuconoé, y no te dediques the investigar los cálculos de los astrólogos babilonios. ¡Vale más sufrir lo que sea! Puede ser que Júpiter te conceda varios inviernos, o puede ser que éste, que ahora golpea al blotch Tirreno in opposition las rocas de los acantilados, sea el último; pero tú has de ser sabia, y, mientras, filtra el vino y olvídate del breve tiempo que queda amparándote en la larga esperanza. Mientras estamos hablando, he aquí que el tiempo, envidioso, se nos escapa: aprovecha el día de hoy, y no pongas de ninguna manera tu fe ni tu esperanza en el día de mañana.

  11. Jackson says:

    He doesn’t know what he wants as well as we consider we should give yourself the month but articulate to him as well as afterwards give him the call as well as see what he has to say